In this conversation with life and couples coach Kevin Orosz, one of the co-authors of Sex, Masculinity, God, to discuss his relationship and intimacy work, Primal Polarity. Primal Polarity seeks to emphasise the importance of thinking the polarity between the sexes and developing the emotional intelligence to process strong and long-lasting polar dynamics with an intimate partner. Throughout the conversation we focus on why so many modern individuals struggle with sexual polarity, major obstacles and challenges regarding social media, dating apps, hookup culture, the ideology of diversity/inclusion versus the necessity of affirming polarity and sexual difference, the difficulties involved in transforming painful sexual blindspots, the difference between needs and desires, as well as the position of the child vis-a-vis polarity.